People mean well. They really don’t have bad intentions. They can’t know all the facts of every situation, and sometimes, they say or do something that is totally inappropriate for the occasion or the circumstances. It is especially tough on new parents who are dealing with the death of a child.
Many times, a pregnancy with multiple fetuses does not result in an all live birth. Of course, all those outside the situation know is “twins” or “triplets,” never once thinking that something could go wrong with such a blessed event.
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